什麼情況下決定當家庭主婦? - 婚姻
By Queena
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最近看了討論家庭主婦的文章
有點好奇各位家庭主婦們 當初是因為什麼原因決定樣當家庭主婦呢? 那做決定前和老公
討論了哪些問題呢?
我個人覺得決定當家庭主婦是很冒險很勇的一個決定
因為當你的經濟來源完全依靠別人時 你就失去了很多自由
也等於要非常地信任對方
就算當初對方信誓旦旦不會覺得付錢的是老大一定會予以尊重
但世事難料 誰知道過了幾年對方是否還這樣覺得?會不會開始挑剔你持家不利家裡不夠乾
淨怎麼不上班還弄不好花費怎麼那麼大等等等等等
感覺這種事情甚至在結婚前就應該討論有共識再結
不知道目前家庭主婦/夫的各位
是在什麼時候 什麼情況下決定開始做呢? 那如果自己有私人花費要怎麼跟對方索取金錢?
還是對方會固定給一筆錢供私人使用?
補個婚姻點
我結婚前就明白告知是不可能當家庭主婦的 老公也很同意
畢竟我是自己創業 除非公司不幸倒了(希望不要有這天) 我都會持續工作,只是我時間較
彈性所以有事情時我可以多顧
如果未來有小孩 那就是雙方請完育嬰假後 可找保母及雙方家長協助(已問過雙方家長意
願)
雙方還是可以出去工作 除非某方自願在家帶小孩
當然也許有人會覺得我賺的可能滿多的老公當然不會要求我去當家庭主婦
但我覺得這更重要的是雙方的想法
我剛創業時也是剛認識老公的時候 開始一兩年也就是發的出三萬元月薪給自己而已
後來我們聊到婚姻話題 他就贊成了我覺得女生結婚後還是可以一直工作
我覺得把婚姻套在頭上去強制別人做什麼 才是讓一堆現代人不敢結婚的主因
沒有什麼男人就要養家女人就要持家顧小孩 找一個雙方都喜歡舒服的模式才是最重要的
就算某方一個月出去打工還賺不到保母費 但她全職在家就是痛苦的要死 硬逼著要顧家也
是不健康的家庭狀態阿
何況剛開始薪水低 也不是就一直低啦
我們公司就有請原本是家庭主婦的兼職媽媽,剛開始是計時制今年覺得她做得很好升為正
職薪水也大幅提升了
反過來說 如果老公其實已經很厭煩工作了想要專職照顧家裡 經濟許可雙方同意下 當主
夫也是很好的。
千萬不用覺得自己是吃軟飯的,在家如果要帶小孩光想就覺得很累阿
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最近看了討論家庭主婦的文章
有點好奇各位家庭主婦們 當初是因為什麼原因決定樣當家庭主婦呢? 那做決定前和老公
討論了哪些問題呢?
我個人覺得決定當家庭主婦是很冒險很勇的一個決定
因為當你的經濟來源完全依靠別人時 你就失去了很多自由
也等於要非常地信任對方
就算當初對方信誓旦旦不會覺得付錢的是老大一定會予以尊重
但世事難料 誰知道過了幾年對方是否還這樣覺得?會不會開始挑剔你持家不利家裡不夠乾
淨怎麼不上班還弄不好花費怎麼那麼大等等等等等
感覺這種事情甚至在結婚前就應該討論有共識再結
不知道目前家庭主婦/夫的各位
是在什麼時候 什麼情況下決定開始做呢? 那如果自己有私人花費要怎麼跟對方索取金錢?
還是對方會固定給一筆錢供私人使用?
補個婚姻點
我結婚前就明白告知是不可能當家庭主婦的 老公也很同意
畢竟我是自己創業 除非公司不幸倒了(希望不要有這天) 我都會持續工作,只是我時間較
彈性所以有事情時我可以多顧
如果未來有小孩 那就是雙方請完育嬰假後 可找保母及雙方家長協助(已問過雙方家長意
願)
雙方還是可以出去工作 除非某方自願在家帶小孩
當然也許有人會覺得我賺的可能滿多的老公當然不會要求我去當家庭主婦
但我覺得這更重要的是雙方的想法
我剛創業時也是剛認識老公的時候 開始一兩年也就是發的出三萬元月薪給自己而已
後來我們聊到婚姻話題 他就贊成了我覺得女生結婚後還是可以一直工作
我覺得把婚姻套在頭上去強制別人做什麼 才是讓一堆現代人不敢結婚的主因
沒有什麼男人就要養家女人就要持家顧小孩 找一個雙方都喜歡舒服的模式才是最重要的
就算某方一個月出去打工還賺不到保母費 但她全職在家就是痛苦的要死 硬逼著要顧家也
是不健康的家庭狀態阿
何況剛開始薪水低 也不是就一直低啦
我們公司就有請原本是家庭主婦的兼職媽媽,剛開始是計時制今年覺得她做得很好升為正
職薪水也大幅提升了
反過來說 如果老公其實已經很厭煩工作了想要專職照顧家裡 經濟許可雙方同意下 當主
夫也是很好的。
千萬不用覺得自己是吃軟飯的,在家如果要帶小孩光想就覺得很累阿
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