也是聘金... - 結婚
By Candice
at 2016-05-17T17:08
at 2016-05-17T17:08
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算是心情抒發加一些抱怨吧
跟女友交往也3、4年了
今天初的時候我們也開始想準備結婚(小弟73年次，女友72)
考量到我們兩個其實積蓄不太多
手頭上只有三年前透過我媽的介紹跟了一個30萬的會，今年到期
而且雙方家庭也不算太有錢
所以結婚的花費上兩個一開始的共識就是以這30萬為基礎盡量節省不花父母的錢
我父母一開始倒是很看得開
覺得公證就可以了，省下的錢兩個人還可以去度蜜月
之後的生活也輕鬆一點
對方父母則是覺得還是要宴客，跑禮俗
當然我覺得既然要娶人家的女兒
這些事情尊重配合也是應該的
上個月先約過雙方父母先吃個飯打個招呼然後準備提親
在我的想法是
既然要提親，一些相關細節最好是能先取得共識才好處理
所以我也讓女友跟她父母探聽一下聘金、宴客方式等一些小細節(我也自己查了一下流程)
現在就卡在因為她表妹去年提親時，女方聘金開口26萬(沒有事先溝通過)
女友媽媽似乎就覺得她也應該要求這個金額(面子問題?)
偏偏就是不肯明講，堅持要提親當天再說
但是開出這個金額我覺得會相當排擠其他的預算(婚紗、餅錢...)
所以有讓女友試著說服她媽降低金額(我們原本估算12萬~18萬)
可是女友媽媽個性很強勢
她們家討論這個話題的結果就是父母吵架...
害女友現在也不太敢提這個話題
昨天晚上聊電話還聊到哭出來
我媽現在也問我萬一女方家聘金開太高怎麼辦...
我也不知道怎麼辦...不然就再存吧...
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