「替對方想」 - 婚姻

By Blanche
at 2021-05-23T23:18
at 2021-05-23T23:18
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想問問大家「替對方想」和「想到對方」這個詞的範圍到哪裡呢?
很常跟伴侶因為吃飯的原因吵架
這個週末我們乖乖待在家哪也不去,都超過十點才真的離開床,然後點外賣來吃,我本人是小鳥胃,吃得少也不易餓,可是伴侶有一個可以吃兩份麥當勞的無底洞胃,而且是會因為餓而發脾氣的人
那時候下午六點多了,他說他餓了要吃飯叫我開始翻外送平台 ,我看到我一直想嘗試可是都剛好公休的店有在頁面上,我就很開心地去問他我可不可以吃這個 結果他就生氣了 他覺得我每次都因為自己不會餓,而沒想到其實他很餓,要嘛就都不決定晚餐吃什麼,要嘛就一直去吃他吃不飽的店
可是在我的認知裡,首先我根本不知道你這麼餓啊 從你叫我點餐到你生氣根本不到十分鐘,你也沒有跟我說你餓很久 我又沒有拖著你不給你吃飯
除了這個事情以外,也曾發生過他說他想吃的東西兌我來說份量太多,我有點不想就吵架的案例
或者是在開車時,他問我說「你有想喝飲料嗎」,我說不想,他就埋怨為什麼我沒有問回來「那你想喝嗎」,說我都只有想到自己而沒有考慮到他的需求,吵了幾次我都欲哭無淚
他覺得我都沒有為他想
我覺得無辜
如果是我的問題還請大家大力鞭我
我應該要怎麼做呢
-如果說事後的改善的話,我都會提醒自己要問回去,他就會稱讚我說很棒進步了,我一點也不覺得開心 覺得很好笑又很無奈
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