Mr. AT and respect - 異國戀

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so my wife got upset about people disrespecting taiwanese girls that date
foreigners, calling them sluts, easy, blah blah blah blah etc.

hahahaha, well first, my wife and I met with a ONS, and (even though she'll
say no) DAMN she was easy. I didn't even have to say hi. But here we are,
two years later, still together, married, planning things, doing married
stuff.

So, you never know where you'll find love.

So, now I have to yell at two poeple - #1 the girls that complain that people
call taiwanese girls easy, sluts, and that the men they like are
terrible, and being with a foreigner is bad blah blah blah.

So you girls that are whining about people being mean to you, stop that.
Those sour men sitting at home, with/or without girlfriends, looking at
cross culture relation posts so they can write things to make people upset
(possibly for fun, i think it's funny when I make somebody angry on the
internet), are not important.

But if it still bothers you, let me teach you something about argueing
(arguing?), and I'm going to use my wife as an example.

Somebody says that she's a slut for being with a foreigner, and she defends
herself by saying -
"no i'm not, I like my husband because of who he is, not because he's
a foreigner," "yes we had sex but we still got married," and "I'm not a slut
or easy because I love him" (she still was easy), and other things to justify
not being a slut.

Another thing she did was that, when she wrote about our marraige and somebody
tried to tell her that foreign men are bad and will cheat, steal their money,
blah blah blah, she was like . . . "I call him all the time" "I have his
debit card" and "He shows me his pay sheet from work." and other things
to JUSTIFY (this word is important) that her marraige with a foreigner is
okay.

Ladies!! Stop trying to justify/defend yourselves! and stop pretending that
people are going to respect you just because you ask nicely. Who are other
people to tell you that you are a slut, or easy, or you are doing something
wrong. Bullshit. Maybe you are easy, maybe you sleep with a few guys, so
what? That's you, not them. They can sleep with as many people as they want
to, (or stay with their current 0). They can't tell you that you are bad.

And you can't defend yourself in an argument because you can't win. If
somebody tells you that you are stupid, you can't say "no I'm not". They will
still find a way to call you stupid. If somebody calls you a slut, you can't
say "no i'm not". They'll still find a way to call you a slut.

But what you can do is tell them that their dumb and show them why.

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