這算情緒勒索嗎?該怎麼溝通 - 婚姻

By Selena
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前提:和先生感情還可以,娘家經濟能力較佳,公婆沒有對我不好,但從小我們家的關係
就不是很親密的那種,所以我對於不是自己親生父母的公婆也是熱絡不起來,我也不想演
戲,加上一些硬體設備上的不習慣,都讓我對回公婆家提不起勁,不過以往只要先生要求
,我都有一起回去 。
這週末我原本問先生要不要去走走,他也問我想去哪裡玩,結果過一天後他突然問:這週
你想回公婆家還是出去玩?我的想法是如果你給我選擇,我當然直接說出我心裡的訴求,
所以我就說我想出去玩,結果先生突然開始說:你對我爸媽是不是有意見?你是不是看不
起我爸媽?我爸媽哪裡對你不好?不是生氣的口氣,或許是想理解原因或許是開玩笑,但
問這些沒頭沒腦的問題也不是第一次了。
然後,我就大爆氣了,先生反而責怪我幹嘛這樣?但明明是你先問我意見,我怎麼就不能
表達了?表達意見還要被質問?
每每只要講到公婆家的事情,如果跟他設想的不同,上述的問題就全部都問一次,我真的
覺得很煩,這不是變相的情緒勒索我嗎?
試問板上的各位應該怎麼溝通呢?
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