大家都多久前發公司公餅?需要順便附喜帖? - 結婚
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By Dorothy
at 2014-05-19T09:33
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大家都多久前發公司公餅?需要順便附上公帖?
(身邊都沒什麼人可以問,婚前焦慮症更嚴重了 >"<
拜託大家給予經驗談跟建議,幫助我婚禮更圓滿,或學到經驗,很感謝大家唷^^)
婚期將近,準備要來發公餅給同事
本人個性低調,只有口頭邀請同單位的同事
其他單位則是只發公餅不附上帖子
但有位蠻懂結婚事宜(常聽她講相關事情)的同事甲提出下面建議意見
讓我現在有點不知該怎麼做才會更好
(怎麼做都有人會說話,只是我很不懂婚禮禮數,無法求最好。只能求做"更"好 >.<)
1.發公餅要順便附上公帖,代表歡迎讓想赴宴的其他單位同仁可報名
2.結婚是好事,不用那麼晚才通知
3.不考慮邀請平日常交流的同事嗎
請問關於
1.發公餅順便附上帖子是常見的嗎?
這樣會是像在討紅包嗎?
還是很基本的社交禮儀的告知同事"要在何時結束單身結婚了"
2.本來打算前一個月告知自己單位同事,但忘了,變成前3周才通知
其他單位同事,因為沒想邀請所以是半個月前才通知
這樣都算太晚通知了嗎?
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補充:
因為之前其他單位同學結婚作法比較低調 聽到有同事幾次抱怨
我覺得蠻ox的,每個人需求作法都不同啊~幫他說話也不被接受
所以自己結婚就很不想太早講出來,怕被說出去又聽到一堆有的沒有意見
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3.雖然其他單位也有平日常交流的同事
但交情好像沒有好到我好意思去邀請,讓對方荷包失血
但是同事甲的意見讓我覺得好像我不夠主動大方?
還是可以像他建議的口頭問看看?對方若會想參加自然我感覺的到?
不想參加也會巧妙委婉拒絕,彼此兩人日後也不會尷尬?
大家都怎麼詢問的呢?
基本上對於發帖子我心魔很重,例如常看到大家討論被亂炸...
又例如有位同事是直接先問我x月x日有沒有空?
奇怪他怎麼這樣問,但還是如實說有空,之後他就邀請我參加他婚禮
還好我很樂意出席他婚禮,不然被這樣問真是會昏倒 @@
再拜託大家給些建議了,怎麼做才能叫得體呢,謝謝謝謝
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