到底要怎樣才可以跟婆婆處得好? - 婚姻
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By Rachel
at 2023-07-23T09:32
at 2023-07-23T09:32
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多吵幾次,感情就變好了。
我因為懷孕住婆家,我婆婆阿香是中醫信奉者,非常反對我喝冰涼的飲料。
前幾個月我趁我婆婆不在,請大伯幫我偷買麥當勞放門外,結果陰錯陽差被我婆婆發現了。她氣不過的怒吼說:「如果你不聽我的話,就不要住我的房子。」
於是我帶著小孩去住旅館,隔天回去開始了跟我公婆的第一次大吵。我方主要論點就是「帶小孩去旅館,是為了讓雙方冷卻情緒」「我本來就要把飲料放到常溫喝。」「我已經比九十%的媳婦孝順了。」「我都把大家當家人,大家卻對我斤斤計較」「我以為你們家都是講道理的人,結果卻沒有證據就先射箭再畫靶。」
最重要的主要論點是:「如果我再聽到要趕我出去的話,我就會帶著小孩搬出去。到時候我老公經濟壓力增加,請不要怪我,我已經盡力了。」
後來我們關係改善不少,現在會同仇敵愾的一起罵沒品的爛鄰居。關係要好要建立在互相尊重之上,自己也要展現出自己的立場,最重要的是不要讓每個小問題衍生成仇恨,把每個小問題視為警訊去解決它,這是我現在的體悟。
當然最近我們也開始在找房了,雖然每個月也付了婆家不少錢,但我還是希望婚後可以獨立成家,畢竟一個屋簷下不可能有兩個女主人。
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我因為懷孕住婆家,我婆婆阿香是中醫信奉者,非常反對我喝冰涼的飲料。
前幾個月我趁我婆婆不在,請大伯幫我偷買麥當勞放門外,結果陰錯陽差被我婆婆發現了。她氣不過的怒吼說:「如果你不聽我的話,就不要住我的房子。」
於是我帶著小孩去住旅館,隔天回去開始了跟我公婆的第一次大吵。我方主要論點就是「帶小孩去旅館,是為了讓雙方冷卻情緒」「我本來就要把飲料放到常溫喝。」「我已經比九十%的媳婦孝順了。」「我都把大家當家人,大家卻對我斤斤計較」「我以為你們家都是講道理的人,結果卻沒有證據就先射箭再畫靶。」
最重要的主要論點是:「如果我再聽到要趕我出去的話,我就會帶著小孩搬出去。到時候我老公經濟壓力增加,請不要怪我,我已經盡力了。」
後來我們關係改善不少,現在會同仇敵愾的一起罵沒品的爛鄰居。關係要好要建立在互相尊重之上,自己也要展現出自己的立場,最重要的是不要讓每個小問題衍生成仇恨,把每個小問題視為警訊去解決它,這是我現在的體悟。
當然最近我們也開始在找房了,雖然每個月也付了婆家不少錢,但我還是希望婚後可以獨立成家,畢竟一個屋簷下不可能有兩個女主人。
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