先生一直急著離婚 - 離婚

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※ 引述《kaoru0913 (Doris)》之銘言:
: 前一段婚姻…我已經獨立撫養二個小孩,前夫也是擺爛…不給撫養費。

跟我碰到的事一樣,我前妻也是擺
爛不給撫養費,由我這邊撫養兩個
小孩,跟妳握握手。

債權憑證也下來多
: 年...遲遲因為他沒特定工作及財產無法做執行。

我前妻也是説她沒錢。


: 目前這是我的第二段婚姻。
: 認識一年多,交往一年多,結婚一年。目前懷孕29週。
: 從交往到婚後,他一直是位嘴甜貼心的另一伴。
: 婚後除了偶發性吃醋的小爭執外,沒什麼特別大的問題。
: 因為工作的關係…我們是週末夫妻。
: 就在這週,他突然性的鬧脾氣,說無法繼續跟我過日子。一直要求要離婚...肚子裡的

: 寶他也不想要了...要求去做引產。
: (會懷這個孩子…是他要求的。他獨生子,第一段婚姻。很喜歡小孩…也說好只生這一

: 。)
: 因為他年紀比我小,我一直當他在鬧脾氣。好言相待與他溝通...也以為讓他心情沈澱

: 下會有好轉
: 但他的態度時好時壞…一下會像往常一樣關心妳...一下又鬧著問我何時可以簽字離婚

: 他四處詢問肯做人工引產的醫院/診所…週數這麼大...生下來都會哭會活了…基於法令

: 人道…沒有任何合法醫療機構肯做。
: 現階段…我以為讓他獨自冷靜,情形會有所好轉,但我錯了!
: 他想趕在寶寶出生前辦離婚...我不肯。
: 當然我也明白留得住人…留不住心的道理。
: 我只希望在寶寶出生後釐清寶寶撫養責任再做結束。
: 目前...
: 他不同意共同監護,共同撫養
: 他不要監護權,撫養費只願意每月負擔5,000元
: 我每個月負擔10,000撫養費,由他獨立執行監護,他也不要。


你們都很清楚,養大一個小孩,每個月
的花費,要遠遠高於這個數字,你們都
是精明的人。


: 我自己傾向放棄監護權,負擔撫養費。不想再重蹈覆轍…
: 寶寶還沒出生…離婚協議就談不攏...寶寶該怎麼辦?

找個律師來問吧。要不然法院把小孩
判給寄養家庭,同時讓你們兩個放棄
小孩監護權,然後你跟你前夫兩個人
都要一起出小孩撫養費,我覺得這是
比較合理的做法。

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All Comments

Charlotte avatarCharlotte2021-08-31
雖然你在這版常被噓,我是非常能理解你的感受的,因為我
Caroline avatarCaroline2021-09-03
對造,也是跟你前妻一樣的爛人
Connor avatarConnor2021-09-06
記得你太太原本要小孩的…後來談成的條件
Andy avatarAndy2021-09-09
小孩如你所願跟著你
Hedy avatarHedy2021-09-12
自己答應免付撫養費把監護權給你,講的好像前妻蓄意不
付。真會扭曲事實
Poppy avatarPoppy2021-09-15
以為消失一陣子網友就忘記你以前的發言了嗎?真是本性
難移
Joe avatarJoe2021-09-18
或許B大對前妻不友善, 但是前妻沒出小孩撫養費是事實..
這兩件事應該分開看吧..
Carol avatarCarol2021-09-21
樓上你不知道前妻本來要一個小孩的,B大擺爛不談,是他
媽媽去談離婚,條件是兩個小孩都給爸爸不用扶養費,前
妻才答應的。離婚中自己提出的條件交換變成對方擺爛不
付?完全不一樣的事情
Joe avatarJoe2021-09-24
B前妻有這麼想要小孩就會上法院訴訟啦 笑死
James avatarJames2021-09-27
真的愛小孩就應該要付好扶養費 那是小孩的資源與發展
David avatarDavid2021-09-30
兩邊都有問題 不用只撻伐B
Oscar avatarOscar2021-10-03
挖~鐵粉又出來說話,愛小孩就要付撫養費那當初何必
做協議
Bethany avatarBethany2021-10-05
你真愛小孩的話,就不會對自己的小孩男女有差別待遇
Quanna avatarQuanna2021-10-08
真的不想要離婚,當初就應該好好處理你們的問題
Franklin avatarFranklin2021-10-11
不是只覺得不該離婚,不該兄妹分開
Wallis avatarWallis2021-10-14
You still can't accept your ex dumps you. You have
been disrespecting single parent family and you are
not able to accept the fact you become a failure by
Daph Bay avatarDaph Bay2021-10-17
your own standard regarding single parent family.
Edith avatarEdith2021-10-20
There are many great single parents including in
this board who deserve respect, but since you always
Selena avatarSelena2021-10-23
disrespect any single parent family, you still can't
Vanessa avatarVanessa2021-10-26
accept your ex dumped you and you become a failure
by your own disdain of single parent families.
Aaliyah avatarAaliyah2021-10-29
that's great, if you really think it's case-by-case,
there is really no reaso your daughter can't find
good husband due to growing up in a single parent
Eden avatarEden2021-11-01
family and it's time for you to accept the fact you
Damian avatarDamian2021-11-04
got dumped by your ex and become a failure by your
standard of disdaining single parent families.
Queena avatarQueena2021-11-07
某sunny就只會急著扣帽子 我說雙方都有問題
Daniel avatarDaniel2021-11-10
希望小孩好 你經濟可以的話 為什麼不付撫養費
Hedy avatarHedy2021-11-12
的確協議就是協議 所以我支持B去法院訴訟撫養費問題
他不去又一直抱怨就是他的問題 你sunny就只是B酸而已
Anonymous avatarAnonymous2021-11-15
You simply can't accept you got dumped, it's really
not about your ex, it's about you got dumped and
Zora avatarZora2021-11-18
become a failure by your own standard. It's a pity
Linda avatarLinda2021-11-21
you still can't accept this simple fact after these
years. You're just too proud to accept failure.
Tom avatarTom2021-11-24
Most people are able to accept the divorce and move
Edwina avatarEdwina2021-11-27
on, but you obviously can't accept the fact you got
Caitlin avatarCaitlin2021-11-30
dumped after these years. You're just too proud to
face rejection.
Kumar avatarKumar2021-12-03
924,經濟許可跟付撫養費是兩回事,當初不要有協議讓
William avatarWilliam2021-12-06
小孩選擇想跟哪一個不就沒事,難不成因為小孩說要跟 09/07 12:03
Olive avatarOlive2021-12-09
前妻是因為某B不夠愛小孩?
用撫養費來定義愛不愛小孩的好像是你吧,沒付撫養費
不表示前妻沒花資源在小孩身上。
Regina avatarRegina2021-12-12
keep telling yourself whatever makes you avoid
reality. It's a pity you still can't accept the fact
Annie avatarAnnie2021-12-15
that you got dumped after these years. You're just
too proud to admit rejection.
Adele avatarAdele2021-12-18
it doesn't matter, it's not really about your ex.
Gilbert avatarGilbert2021-12-20
it's about you too proud to admit rejection. It's a
pity you still can't accept the fact you got dumped
after these years.
Thomas avatarThomas2021-12-23
妳前妻不付撫養費,是因為你要二個孩子的監護權
Yuri avatarYuri2021-12-26
你把一個孩子給前妻,就沒有這個問題了。
別睜眼說瞎話
Freda avatarFreda2021-12-29
你搶了小孩的監護權,賺了這麼大,還在這邊哭爹叫娘,實在
Joe avatarJoe2022-01-01
看不下去。覺得我不對的話,覺得有小孩不是最好的,就把
一個送回給媽媽啊!
Necoo avatarNecoo2022-01-04
again, it's not really about your ex. It's about you
Harry avatarHarry2022-01-07
not able to accept the fact you got dumped. It's a
pity you're still too proud to admit rejection after
these years.
Madame avatarMadame2022-01-10
no, it's not always equal in every relation. You got
dumped and you're just too proud to admit it. Keep
Sandy avatarSandy2022-01-13
finding excuses to help you avoid reality. It's a
pity you still can't admit rejection after years.
Ophelia avatarOphelia2022-01-16
ha ha, you're really desparated. What's written in
Selena avatarSelena2022-01-19
constistuion doesn't always reflect reality. Anyway,
it must be hard for you to realize this world is not
George avatarGeorge2022-01-22
fair and not everything is equal. Keep finding more
excuses to help you avoid reality. It's a pity you
still can't accept the fact you got dumped nor admit
Todd Johnson avatarTodd Johnson2022-01-25
rejection after these years.
Selena avatarSelena2022-01-27
it's actually kind of sad you're so desparate that
Catherine avatarCatherine2022-01-30
you use equality in front of law to imply equality
Edward Lewis avatarEdward Lewis2022-02-02
in every relationship. No, not everything is equal
in this workld and it's time for you to man up to
Lauren avatarLauren2022-02-05
accept you got dumped.
Ina avatarIna2022-02-08
Again, you can keep pretending this world is an
Isabella avatarIsabella2022-02-11
utopia so you have excuses to not admit rejection.
Erin avatarErin2022-02-14
It's a pity you still can't accept the fact you got
dumped after these years.
Valerie avatarValerie2022-02-17
I guess you finally realize this world is not fair
Mason avatarMason2022-02-20
and not everything is equal. Feel free to make more
excuses so you can avoid reality. You're just too
proud to admit rejection. It's really a pity you
still can't even acknowledge you got dumped after
Barb Cronin avatarBarb Cronin2022-02-23
those years.
Liam avatarLiam2022-02-26
Yes, it's not always equal in all relationship, but
you can't keep making excuses to not admit rejection
Lydia avatarLydia2022-03-01
it's a pity you're still not able to accept the fact
you got dumped after these years.
Keep denying your ex asked to divorce you first, you
Gary avatarGary2022-03-04
got dumped and you're just too proud to admit it.
Ophelia avatarOphelia2022-03-07
Your ex asked for divorce first, you got dumped and
your feeling is hurt. You're just too proud to admit
Olive avatarOlive2022-03-09
rejection. It's a pity you refuse to acknowledge you
got dumped after these years.
Suhail Hany avatarSuhail Hany2022-03-12
again, keep telling whatever helps you to avoid
reality. Your ex asked for divorce first, you got
Andrew avatarAndrew2022-03-15
dumped and you're just too proud to admit rejection.
your feeling is so hurt that it's such a pity you
still can't even acknowledge you got dumped after
many years.
Odelette avatarOdelette2022-03-18
他已經承認他被拒絕了 看清楚再打英文
Daniel avatarDaniel2022-03-21
Cool!! He finally admited he got rejected and got
dumped by his ex after these years.
Faithe avatarFaithe2022-03-24
Really happy for you to finally admit you got dumped
by your ex after these years. This is a big step for
you!
Connor avatarConnor2022-03-27
btw, both your friend and you misunderstand the
rejection here, it refers to rejection in relation-
Suhail Hany avatarSuhail Hany2022-03-30
ship, but anyway, so glad you admit it now and can
Madame avatarMadame2022-04-02
face the fact you got dumped by your ex.
Wallis avatarWallis2022-04-05
Again, you mistand the rejection here refers to
rejection in relationship. It looks like your friend
is wrong and you're still too proud to admit you got
Bennie avatarBennie2022-04-08
rejected and got dumped. It's such a pity you are
still not able to even acknowledge you got dumped
after these years
Olga avatarOlga2022-04-11
You're trying so hard it's actually kind of sad for
Erin avatarErin2022-04-14
you. You, as a person, got rejected in the relation-
Anthony avatarAnthony2022-04-16
ship, totally different to buying a puppy. You're
just too hurt to admit you got dumped.
Joseph avatarJoseph2022-04-19
Keep telling yourself whatever helps you to avoid
reality. Your ex asked for divorce first, you got
Ula avatarUla2022-04-22
dumped. You're just too proud to admit you, as a
person, got rejected in the relationship. It's such
Kyle avatarKyle2022-04-25
a pity you can't even acknowledge you got dumped
after these years.
Lauren avatarLauren2022-04-28
Again, tell whatever you like to hear to yourself.
It's a pity you still can't even acknowledge you got
dumped after these years.
Jack avatarJack2022-05-01
Feel free to keep avoiding reality. You simply are
too proud to admit you, as a person, got rejected in
Isla avatarIsla2022-05-04
the realationship. You keep blaming others but you-
Harry avatarHarry2022-05-07
self. It's such a pity that you still fail to even
Hazel avatarHazel2022-05-10
achknowledge the simpl fact that you got dumped
after so many years.
Queena avatarQueena2022-05-13
自己都養不起了還養小孩,是要感謝啥?要小孩的一方有
本事就自己養啦 在那邊哭撫養費真的好笑
Rae avatarRae2022-05-16
基本上沒同住就沒什麼感情了
Leila avatarLeila2022-05-19
只會越看越厭惡
Sarah avatarSarah2022-05-22
那麼愛錢當初不跟有錢人在一起?
Victoria avatarVictoria2022-05-24
Again, keep making more excuses to avoid reality.
Doris avatarDoris2022-05-27
None of the excuses you make matters until you can
acknowledge the simple fact you got dumped. You're
Frederic avatarFrederic2022-05-30
too hurt and too proud to admit that you, as a
person, got rejected in the relationship. It's a
James avatarJames2022-06-02
pity you still can't face the fact you got dumped
after these years.
Kelly avatarKelly2022-06-05
No, the reality is that you got dumped and you're so
hurt about it. You're just too proud to admit that
Agatha avatarAgatha2022-06-08
you, as a person, got dumped in the relationship.
But feel free to make more excuses to avoid reality,
none of your excuses matters until you admit you got
Wallis avatarWallis2022-06-11
dumped after these years.
Irma avatarIrma2022-06-14
Again, keep making more excuses, all of your excuses
Edwina avatarEdwina2022-06-17
just show how hurt you're by getting dumpped. You're
just too proud to admit that you, as a person, got
Skylar DavisLinda avatarSkylar DavisLinda2022-06-20
rejected in the relationship. It's such a pity you
still can't even acknowledge you got dumpped after
these years.
Franklin avatarFranklin2022-06-23
keep side-steping and making up excuses to pretend
it's not a big deal when in fact, all your excuses
Charlie avatarCharlie2022-06-26
show you're so hurt by being dumpped. It's not about
Robert avatarRobert2022-06-29
your ex, it's about you being too proud to admin you
, as a person, got rejected in the relationship. It
Suhail Hany avatarSuhail Hany2022-07-01
is a pity you're still refuse to acknowledge you got
Valerie avatarValerie2022-07-04
dumped after these years.
Isla avatarIsla2022-07-07
Keep making more excuses, all your excuses just show
Kristin avatarKristin2022-07-10
you're really hurt by getting dumped. Feel free to
keep pretending it's not a big deal when in fact you
Freda avatarFreda2022-07-13
keep side stepping and are just too proud to admit
you got dumped. It's such a pity you still refuse to
even acknowledge the fact you got dumped after years
Una avatarUna2022-07-16
You, as a person, got rejected in the relationship,
Candice avatarCandice2022-07-19
totally different to rejecting a request. Read again
, you, as a person, got dumped.
Ethan avatarEthan2022-07-22
Again, keep side-stepping, it's not about your ex,
it's about you're so hurt by getting dumped. You, as
Irma avatarIrma2022-07-25
a person, got rejected in the relationship and you
are too proud to admit it. Feel free to make more
Dora avatarDora2022-07-22
excuses, it's such a pity you still can't even
Hamiltion avatarHamiltion2022-07-25
acknowledge you got dumped after these years.
Faithe avatarFaithe2022-07-22
No, the reality is that you're so hurt by getting
dumped and you're too proud to admit it. It's not
Carol avatarCarol2022-07-25
about your ex, it's about you, as a person, got
rejected in the relationship and you just can't
stand it. Keep side stepping to avoid the reality.
Jacob avatarJacob2022-07-22
it's such a pity you're still not able to face the
fact you got dumped ater these years.
Regina avatarRegina2022-07-25
講人的壞話也是會做孽,更何況你前妻的孽是你一手造下的
Jacob avatarJacob2022-07-22
離婚時前妻不是沒給其他條件,你寧願選擇她不用付錢的條件
代表前妻現在造的孽,你也要分一半。還有講人壞話的孽
你在板上給越多人看到,這造孽就造得越深
Audriana avatarAudriana2022-07-25
你又再講給你的小孩聽,讓小孩恨自己的母親
小孩也開始累積他的孽緣。
Ina avatarIna2022-07-22
只有你放下仇恨,接受自己的失敗並用健康的心承擔這失敗
這一切的冤孽才會終止