我的婚姻很幸福 - 婚姻
By Ophelia
at 2022-05-28T17:02
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是否同意記者抄文:NO
結婚9年多了,快進入第10年
跟公婆同住,有些黑~但我還是很幸福
我很謝謝我的老公,雖然有時他有一些傳統
但他不菸不酒不賭,是個看到地上有垃圾會順手撿起來的好男人
除了太過熱愛工作之外...嘖嘖
對於我做出的任何決定(不論是工作上的、家庭的還是孩子教養)
他都表示支持,就算不支持也不會反對
就算公婆對我的行為舉止有微言,他也只聽不說,放著我隨便來
我們從交往到結婚,沒有吵過架爆粗口
我婆婆說可能是我上輩子好事做太多了.....XD
想想,如果不是他脾氣太好,那就是我EQ太高...
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也不是我腹黑
但幸福的婚姻是需要手段的
除了找一個適合自己的男人外,還要愛他、讓他、照顧他 (很像某種養成遊戲)
我阿娘說,與其抓住他的胃,不如抓好他的鳥...
所以...我博覽群書、群片,在阿娘的技術指導下
床笫的配合度...我都佩服自己了
每周2~3次,完全秉持著敬業的態度,把自己當酒店小姐,把老公當皇帝在侍候
隔天我老公總會溫柔小意,覺得我特別辛勞,需要多休息
-----
平常意見不合時
我們會先放下這個話題,像沒事的人又開始聊起別的事
如果覺得情節重大
那就會隨著事態發展個幾天,找好切入的時間點
以旁敲側擊的方式協談
我完全站在支持老公的這一邊,只是發現了誰有意見或著有什麼狀況
此外,我從不在老公面前說公婆的不是
每次都一臉非常擔憂跟真誠的樣子,用詢問的方式告訴老公
一切都是為了他爸媽好~(事實也差不多是這樣)
-----
我每天都跟老公說我很愛他
會抱他、親他、跨坐在他身上磨蹭
三不五時要歌頌一下他的厲害之處
老公你人真好,謝謝你幫我洗碗~~老公切的水果特別好吃之類的
但我也不是那種不知感恩的人
有時會幫老公洗澡刷背
幫他剪指甲、剪頭髮、做便當
每晚也會幫他按摩舒緩痠痛
還努力運動(每天30min~1hr),維持美好健康的樣子
以出得廳堂、進得廚房、上得了床為目標
小孩問我最愛誰時,一定說是老公
你問我這是真愛嗎?
每一種關係都是愛,只是愛的多寡而已,還有你希望的婚姻狀態是什麼
即使再親密的人,也要有禮貌的說謝謝和道歉
-----
生活小事件
某次去了X聯買下周的便當食材,花了快3張小朋友
我:老公,我覺得我花太多了錢了,你是不是不高興了(一臉內疚)
老公:不會~這對我來說都是小錢(一臉瀟灑)
我:老公你真的好會賺錢唷~收入都比我高....
我很假嗎?其實我脾氣還滿大的...這個我家小孩和公婆就有深刻的體悟
我不過是那種只問結果不問手段的人
希望婚姻版的各位也都能感到幸福。
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結婚9年多了,快進入第10年
跟公婆同住,有些黑~但我還是很幸福
我很謝謝我的老公,雖然有時他有一些傳統
但他不菸不酒不賭,是個看到地上有垃圾會順手撿起來的好男人
除了太過熱愛工作之外...嘖嘖
對於我做出的任何決定(不論是工作上的、家庭的還是孩子教養)
他都表示支持,就算不支持也不會反對
就算公婆對我的行為舉止有微言,他也只聽不說,放著我隨便來
我們從交往到結婚,沒有吵過架爆粗口
我婆婆說可能是我上輩子好事做太多了.....XD
想想,如果不是他脾氣太好,那就是我EQ太高...
-----
也不是我腹黑
但幸福的婚姻是需要手段的
除了找一個適合自己的男人外,還要愛他、讓他、照顧他 (很像某種養成遊戲)
我阿娘說,與其抓住他的胃,不如抓好他的鳥...
所以...我博覽群書、群片,在阿娘的技術指導下
床笫的配合度...我都佩服自己了
每周2~3次,完全秉持著敬業的態度,把自己當酒店小姐,把老公當皇帝在侍候
隔天我老公總會溫柔小意,覺得我特別辛勞,需要多休息
-----
平常意見不合時
我們會先放下這個話題,像沒事的人又開始聊起別的事
如果覺得情節重大
那就會隨著事態發展個幾天,找好切入的時間點
以旁敲側擊的方式協談
我完全站在支持老公的這一邊,只是發現了誰有意見或著有什麼狀況
此外,我從不在老公面前說公婆的不是
每次都一臉非常擔憂跟真誠的樣子,用詢問的方式告訴老公
一切都是為了他爸媽好~(事實也差不多是這樣)
-----
我每天都跟老公說我很愛他
會抱他、親他、跨坐在他身上磨蹭
三不五時要歌頌一下他的厲害之處
老公你人真好,謝謝你幫我洗碗~~老公切的水果特別好吃之類的
但我也不是那種不知感恩的人
有時會幫老公洗澡刷背
幫他剪指甲、剪頭髮、做便當
每晚也會幫他按摩舒緩痠痛
還努力運動(每天30min~1hr),維持美好健康的樣子
以出得廳堂、進得廚房、上得了床為目標
小孩問我最愛誰時,一定說是老公
你問我這是真愛嗎?
每一種關係都是愛,只是愛的多寡而已,還有你希望的婚姻狀態是什麼
即使再親密的人,也要有禮貌的說謝謝和道歉
-----
生活小事件
某次去了X聯買下周的便當食材,花了快3張小朋友
我:老公,我覺得我花太多了錢了,你是不是不高興了(一臉內疚)
老公:不會~這對我來說都是小錢(一臉瀟灑)
我:老公你真的好會賺錢唷~收入都比我高....
我很假嗎?其實我脾氣還滿大的...這個我家小孩和公婆就有深刻的體悟
我不過是那種只問結果不問手段的人
希望婚姻版的各位也都能感到幸福。
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